In the fast-paced, high-pressure day-to-day work we do, I sometimes catch myself not engaging quite enough with my patients
Youâre running late and many things didnât go right today. You knock on the door and enter the exam room with an apology.
If youâre like me, you have a few papers and an iPad or a laptop in your hand. You sit down and open the patientâs chart in your device or perhaps on the big desktop, eyes not exactly locked on the patient.
Only after getting to where you need to be in the computer do you really look the patient in the eyes. Your body language has been one of hurry and distraction. Now you try to repair the damage of that, so you try to show youâre settling down now, at least for a few moments. You might sigh, move your arms in a gesture of relaxation and say something to get the history taking underway.
So far, youâre failing. I do that often, too.
Hereâs what we all know we need to do, but often donât; we should follow these ABCs:
A â Attention
Clear your mind. It doesnât matter what happened in the other room with the other patient, or on the phone with the insurance company or the smug specialist or ER doc who pointed out the diagnosis you missed. Open the door (I always knock first) and immediately look at the patient. Make eye contact and observe them. Pay attention to how they look, what they are signalling. The computer can wait; a few moments of focused attention will usually save you time in the end. After all, red or teary eyes, a leg cast, a big bruise or change in grooming can make the visit go in a direction you wouldnât have expected from he listed chief complaint. How many times have we heard a patient comment about another doctor: He didnât pay attention to me. Do we always do that ourselves if weâre rushed or preoccupied?
B â Behaviour
Behave like a doctor. I keep saying that. But the clinical encounter is like a dance, where either one of us can lead, and we lead a little too often. Behave in a way that signals respect, interest and both confidence and humility. Behave like someone who serves, guides and helps the patient heal. Behave in a way that behooves a doctor. You have paid attention to the patient. What did you see? What does he or she need, or need you to be like, in this moment?
C â Connection
The goal of contemplating how a good clinical encounter should begin is to establish a connection. Learning about someone, counselling someone, treating someone, comforting someone all require having a connection with that person. They tell you that strangers you meet like you better if you invite them to talk about themselves. Making connections with patients requires showing genuine interest, inviting disclosure and reciprocating just enough to show that you are a real person, but not so much that you seem too fallible or self-absorbed. It is better to talk about your interests than about yourself. Sharing about pets, children and hobbies that donât portray you as uppety is safest.
In the fast paced, high pressure day to day work we do, I sometimes catch myself not engaging quite enough with my patients. Even after 40 years of doing this, I need to remind myself to start every patient encounter off in a way that sets the stage for making clinical and interpersonal progress. My demeanor builds relationship equity over time so that if I sometimes donât live up to my ambition and miss one of my ABCs, my patients are a little more likely to overlook it.
Dr Hans Duvefelt, MD is a physician based in the US.
This blog was originally published on A Country Doctor Writes.
